Do you ever wonder why things happen?  I suppose many of us do.  I am one of those firm believers that everything happens for a reason.  I may not know what the reason is or I may not like what it happening, but I know it is all a part of a bigger plan. We plan our lives.  Even just our days.  And something goes haywire.  THAT was NOT a part of MY plan!!!  Sometimes good, sometimes bad.  Of course, the good is always better to be surprised with.  But usually it is the bad that throws us for a loop.  It messes up our day or even the next…